I tell my bestie that he is secretly a 15 year old boy, then he is absolutely odd about locking up the house plus being secure.
He keeps all the doors plus windows locked at all times, and frequently he locks myself and others out of the house… I am walking around outside plus he notices an unlocked door. He locks it plus then both of us have to call him to let myself and others in. He also refuses to leave any light on in the house in case someone could look in plus see… Another big thing of his is blinds on the windows. I absolutely don’t like blinds since they do nothing but look ugly plus collect dust! But my 15 year old boy of a bestie doesn’t want anyone to see inside the home. I found a solution that works well for both of us, and every one of us don’t have to have blinds on every window in the house. I now have the windows tinted a blackened color; My bestie walked around the house plus pressed his face right to the glass, you can’t see in our house with the professional window tint. Inside the house both of us can see totally fine. My bestie likes that he can see outside plus no 1 can see in. I suppose he almost feels like a secret spy or something. I then bought him a door keypad, security method with cameras plus motion activated lights for around the property, now he is blissful plus at peace with living in the house. For me, I am just blissful that I can get in plus out of the house plus look outside for once.