My partner & I don’t share a bed. It annoys myself and others that everyone assumes there is trouble in our relationship. Sharing a bed & a room makes no sense to me. Since I was a baby I have consistently had my own space. Suddenly I now have to share it with a guy that is a total slob? My partner leaves dirty clothes on the floor, used cups on the morningstand & leaves food out, and he also snores legitimately loudly & gets up legitimately early for work. He wants to be -10 degrees so he has air conditioner & a separate fan going simultaneously. If I had to sleep in the same room as him we would be divorced in a year. I like being toasty moderate when I sleep. I keep my heating plan cranked up high & I still have a comforter. I also am a light sleeper & a neat freak. The people I was with and I couldn’t share a space. If we can’t even agree on a Heating & Air Conditioning setting, a bedroom being shared is a recipe for disaster. I invested in a ductless Heating & Air Conditioning plan to ensure the multiple of us are glad. The people I was with and I each have our own temperature control to decide whatever temperature we want. The multiple individual Heating & Air Conditioning units don’t interfere with each other either. I can have heating all night long while my partner blasts A/C & neither of us care. The only compromise we make is in the family room & entryway. Honestly though, I always decide the entryway temp while he does the family room. Zone control has been a legitimately wonderful thing for us.