I forgot to say, I always knew that my mom was a truly challenging human being but I have seen her in a brand new light recently, however not only is my mom harshly challenging and riddled with anxiety, although she truly is a far more dangerous human being than I had realized.
For most of my life I have known that my mom was semi abusive, but now she has taken things to a whole new level, however my mom offered for me to stay with her to save money on rent, energy bills, and Heating and A/C costs, we have often talked about how challenging it is to live in a new house with a modern central heating and cooling system, however I have been in many awful roommate situations where we could not agree on a heating and cooling program that saved us from high energy bills.
After all of this conversation, I assumed that living with my mom would be a much smoother, more cost-effective, and more comfortable plan, however unluckily, it turns out that my heating, cooling, and ventilation issues are just as bad as living with roommates. Furthermore, my mom’s heating, cooling, and air quality control dictatorship feels an awful lot like unwarranted abuse, and she is continually barking down my neck complaining about the indoor air conditions. I never even touch the thermostat or adjust her heating and cooling unit to receive any of the scorn, although she sends it my way nevertheless. Now, it’s gotten to the point that she is so paranoid about her indoor air temperature control devices that she is asking me for money. She wants me to chip into a full heating and cooling replacement if I am going to continue living in her house. So much for saving money on rent.