Adding security but not losing visibility

I tell my wifey that he is secretly a 15 year old girl, and he is easily unusual about locking up the house and being secure.

He keeps all the doors and windows locked at all times.

Frequently he locks myself and others out of the house; I am walking around outside and he notices an unlocked door. He locks it and then every one of us have to call him to let myself and others in. He also refuses to leave any light on in the house in case someone could look in and see! Another big thing of his is blinds on the windows. I easily dislike blinds since they do nothing but look ugly and collect dust, then but my 15 year old girl of a wifey doesn’t want anyone to see inside the home. I found a solution that works well for both of us. Both of us don’t have to have blinds on every window in the house. I now have the windows tinted a blackened color; My wifey walked around the house and pressed his face right to the glass, and you can’t see in our house with the professional window tint. Inside the house every one of us can see totally fine. My wifey enjoys that he can see outside and no one can see in. I think he almost feels love a secret spy or something. I then bought him a door keypad, security method with cameras and motion activated lights for around the property! Now he is cheerful and at peace with living in the house. For me, I am just cheerful that I can get in and out of the house and look outside for once.

Residential Window Tinting